February Newsletter
Month of Love
OK, here we go again, Valentine’s Day.
Uggg? or Yeah!?
Such an interesting exchange of forced expectations. I do have some friends that are a couple. They have been married 10+ years, and have two kids. Every year they both celebrate Valentine’s Day with such gusto! From cute new pajama bottoms, candles, gifts and a romantic evening together. He gives her what she needs, and she honors him fully. It is the most successful celebration of Valentine’s Day that I have seen year after year.
I remember having had the biggest argument with my old boyfriend on Valentine’s Day one year because he just didn’t see the day the same way that I did. He didn’t want to celebrate because he was being forced to celebrate. I can understand both sides. It is a forced holiday, AND, what is wrong with showering LOVE on your beloved? It feels good.
So, I will be spending this Valentine’s Day at the Transformational Gate in Colorado. There it is a given that my day will be infused with love. I wish you could all be there with me. And wherever it is that you are, it is just another opportunity for you to GIVE and RECEIVE love. Can’t get too much of that!
Concepts of Reorganizational Healing Triad of Change
In reorganizational healing we create greater wellness, make healthier lifestyle choices, enjoy sustainable, increased quality of life even in the face of life challenges. And we strive to live the life you were meant to live!
Your pain is never in your circumstance or condition. But your circumstance and life condition activate the pain you live with on some level. Underlying our suffering is the inability to be present with or experience our experience in the moment.
- The suffering is always in the concept! When you get the wave going through your spine, it is the ability to restructure the mind, and restructure the life!
- Where is your focus? Driving ahead, or looking in rear view mirror? Your focus = your future.
- Your physiology is a function of habits from the past. Life flows with that. If looking in the past, than the future becomes the past.
- How do you let go of your past? You’re living in your past. You don’t get rid of your past! You choose a different future!!
- You have to decide to go in a different direction. You can choose it in this next moment and the care in our office is here to support you with that.
DO HOW DO YOU DO ALL THIS? You begin with the TRIAD OF CHANGE.
There are three parts to this triangle:
- Perception
With perception you are focusing on a sensation in the body, or an emotion that you’re feeling or that someone else is feeling. Or it is the meaning you are giving to something or that someone else is giving to someone. Perception is about thinking me or someone else, or feeling me or someone else. People who lead with perception can simply realize they need to change their perception about something, make the shift, and the change can occur effortlessly. - Behavior
Behavior is the action are what you are actually doing. Action being taken, and the way you are doing i - Structure
If it answers the question of When or Where, it is STRUCTURE. If it has to do with a plan, a contract, a marriage, it is STRUCTURE. Posture is STRUCTURE. If you have to change your location or ‘go to do something’ then it is structure. Or if there is a specific time for it.
Observe yourself. What is your side of pain? What is your side of gain?
For me I lead with Structure, then Behavior, then Perception.
If I am leading with Perception I am leading with my triad of pain, and things don’t go so well. For structure, sometimes all I have to do is change my posture, and the whole results of where I am at, and where I am going can change. I used to think I lead with Perception, only to discover it was truly my demise.
This concept can be challenging to understand and I would be happy to engage in conversation with you to help you discover your Triad of Gain.
SRI – Somato Respiratory Integration
SRI is a discipline designed to work in conjunction with Network Spinal Analysis. It is designed to work with the perception side of the triangle. It is a very powerful component to this work.
In other offices sometimes there is a SRI facilitator who schedules private appointments and does 20 minute sessions. The cost of these sessions varies from $75-90. I have figured out a way to get SRI in the office for a nominal fee. I have Jeannie come because I know it will assist you in growth and transformation. It is really important to me that she is there, and really important that you choose to participate in the sessions with her.
The additional cost for working with Jeannie is $20, in addition to the entrainment. I encourage you all to be open to having sessions with her. If you do work with Jeannie, an additional $20 fee will automatically be added to your account.
If you have feedback about working with Jeannie I would love to receive it. Please just either send me an email, or talk to me in person.
Soul Style Workshop
One of the many, many pieces that I got from going to my Ultimatum program was the concept of your Soul Style. What it is is creating a sentence that uses adjectives that describe your gifts, qualities you want to imbibe more of, and what you want the world to know because you are here.
We worked in small groups to determine what felt the most true to your soul. When you finally get it right, when you say it, you can feel it radiate in all cells of your being. You then use it in your arsenal as a tool to exchange to the highest version of you when you might be losing touch with your truest self.
Here are a few examples:
I Am a parthenon of courage, inspiring compassionate action.
I am a wild sensual dance of feminine strength, beauty, and wisdom, seducing transformation wherever i am.
I am a fireball of passion, spontaneously erupting in joy, while illuminating the way to forgiveness and personal embodies liberation.
I am a wildly passionate seductress of courageous integrity igniting abundant intimacy with the intoxication of divine recognition.
Inspired? I thought it might be fun to spend a morning creating our soul styles. If you are interested please jot me an email back.
Office Flow
I just wanted to let you all know that office flow is quite lopsided on the whole. Monday’s and Friday’s tend to be much busier than Wednesday’s and Thursday’s. If you have more flexibility in your schedule then please visit during the quieter times.
I like to be able to be flexible and serve everyone that walks in the door, and that is my tendency, and my desire. If the office is more busy, that becomes more challenging for me, and for the people who have scheduled appointments in advance.
If you could try to schedule your appointments in advance that would help with the overall flow of the office. Thank you.
Chanting Opportunities In March!
Mark your calendars! Snatam Kaur will be performing through Rudramandir at the Scottish Rite Temple on Friday night, March 19th.
I play her a lot in the office and she has a beautiful voice, and is great to chant with.
Krishna Das and Miten & Premal
On Sunday night, March 28th, Krishna Das and Miten & Premal will be playing at the Warfield in San Francisco.
This is my idea of heaven. It would be nice to see you all there. I am definitely planning to attend.
